Thank you for the much-needed truth bombs. You have laid bare the problem with today's "woke" movement, in that simply increasing hypersensitivity (and thus making people more reactive and emotionalistic), while also inadvertently presuming helplessness and incompetence on the part of minorities, is not the path to overcoming racism.
The problem with "wokeism" and the well-meaning (but dubious) concept of "social justice" (as opposed to natural justice), is that it assigns group blame, and thus lets individual perpetrators off the hook. In the meantime, as you point out, people allow themselves to get bogged down in absurdities (i.e. "celery is racist!") and distracted from the truly serious issues around racism.